The title of today's post is pretty self-explanatory.
In the modern world, dating has become increasingly difficult and continues to become even more difficult to navigate.
We are beginning to see what may be the start of a long term crisis - men giving up on pursuing women entirely.
Men are choosing to give up on women entirely for a few reasons:
No appreciation - It is no secret that men today are less appreciated than they ever have before.
With the rise of toxic movements such as feminism, men are being taught that they are not needed and that women are equal to men in every way.
Being as that men built the entire world we live in today and it is men putting their lives on the line to protect it, there is still little-to-no appreciation for men to continue to show up to protect and provide.
Divorces initiated by women - There is very little upside for men to be married to today's generation of women, at least here in the West.
Statistics show that 70% of marriages that end in divorce are initiated by women.
As a man, this presents extremely high risk because we all know what happens to men amidst divorce - the bitter ex-wife takes the house, takes the kids, and half of his paycheck.
Promiscuous women - Dating promiscuous women is extremely high risk for men in long term relationships.
Recent studies have shown that women that have been with 10 or more sexual partners are 40% more likely to cheat or file for divorce.
In other words, women that have been with more men, dated more men, or talked to more men are much less capable of being able to pair bond to one man.
A promiscuous woman’s constant need for new validation from men greatly increases the risk of infidelity, as well as lowering her satisfaction with being tied down to just one man without seeking the approval of new men.
Social media and online pornography - Due to the rise and relevance of social media and online pornography in today's day-in-age, men no longer have to go out and pursue women to have their sexual fantasies fulfilled.
Put simply, the easy accessibility of attractive promiscuous women online in modern culture is what has allowed men to sit at home and fulfill their short term sexual wants and desires.
Men that consume a lot of pornography inherently know that the more they consume, the less fulfilled they are ever going to be sexually by the average woman - so why bother?
Men spend more time consuming attractive women online to fulfill their short term desires than going out into the world to become useful, capable men.
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When we break it down, we can clearly see why there is no incentive for men to pursue women in a relationship.
Given my personal experience in the years I have been in male entertainment, I can honestly say that I do not blame men for giving up on trying to pursue women entirely.
As a man that has been seen as more "desirable" by women for my time in the spotlight, I have seen the worst in women.
I have personally had many women that were married, engaged, or with boyfriends at home throw themselves at me for one night of them being able to fulfill their short term wants and desires.
For awhile, I would even say that I gave up on trying to pursue a woman in a long term relationship because I have seen many women in committed relationships be ready to throw it all away for one night of "fun".
With that being said, it wasn't until I found my true purpose in life that I realized what it is I truly wanted in a woman - a woman that is soft, nurturing, respectful, loyal, and supportive.
The more clear that I have gotten with pursuing my purpose, the more I realized that women like this still exist, although hard to find.
So the question then becomes: who is to blame?
I truly do not believe we can sit here and blame one side or the other.
We cannot sit here and blame women for everything and we can't sit here and blame men for everything when we co-evolved together.
The truth is, yes, women today behave poorly and they should 100% be held accountable for their lack of judgement and good conduct, but it is also men that reward women for poor behavior.
The reason why today's generation of women are promiscuous and lack self-respect is because men are the ones that reward poor behavior.
It is men that sit at home and drool over women posting half naked online, subscribing to their OnlyFans, and flying these women all around the world in their private jets all to fulfill their short term wants and desires.
There is nothing but upside to be a beautiful woman in today's world and I can honestly see why because if most men had the luxury that beautiful women do, they would probably be doing the same thing.
So naturally, we can see why we can't honestly sit here and blame one side or the other when we are both equally to blame.
This doesn't excuse women for making poor decisions in their lives because while it might seem like there is nothing but upside for being promiscuous and behaving poorly, the long term effects these poor decisions have on women are catastrophic to their long term mental, and emotional well-being.
With all of that being said, there are still good men in the world today in search for a suitable counterpart.
While quality options are very little in Western culture, men that are driven to fulfill something larger in their lives are not the one's rewarding women for poor behavior and lack of judgement.
This is also why I believe that men are starting to look at women outside of Western culture as suitable long term partners.
It is Western culture that tells women not to appreciate men.
It is Western culture that put women on a pedestal for being promiscuous.
It is Western culture that rewards women for poor behavior.
Other cultures around the world do not work the same way that we do here in the States and other western nations.
There are other cultures around the world that demonize women and punish men for behaving the way we do here in the West.
So how do we fix this problem?
How can we inspire men to actually want to go out and pursue women so that we can work to build together and carry on our bloodline to the next generation?
In my opinion, it starts with men being and acting like men.
If men decided to pursue a true purpose in life, they would realize that rewarding women for bad behavior is a waste of time.
If men no longer reward women for bad behavior, women would then have no reason to behave poorly.
As men, we are the leaders of the world and we are the leaders of women and our household.
We shouldn't ever have to rely on a woman for us to search and pursue a path greater than ourselves.
We should already be on the pursuit of our purpose before we ever consider bringing a woman into our lives to share the ride with us.
It is only when a man is truly pursuing his greater purpose that he realizes most women have nothing to offer him.
Fulfilling our short term wants and desires take a backseat to our greater mission when we are focused on something that will bring us a life of long term reward and fulfillment.
If men acted like men and stopped rewarding women for bad behavior, women would have no choice but to fall in line and follow our lead.
Can this be done?
That remains to be seen.
Maybe over a long enough time frame, yes.
But for right now, the damage that has been done has no chance of fixing itself overnight.
As men, we should never incentivize a woman to behave in such a way that is detrimental to her long term well-being.
A woman will never understand the repercussions of her bad behavior if we continue to reward her for behaving poorly.
The more a woman can understand what it's like to be surrounded by good strong men, the more she is going to understand what her role as a woman is in a relationship.
If a woman is only surrounded by weak men that just want to exploit her for her body or her looks, the less capable she will naturally become as a woman.
For all men out there, this is my message to you: never stop working to fulfill your purpose and make yourself capable in your life because it is only then will you understand what kind of woman is worth your time or not.
If a woman has absolutely nothing to offer you or if she is not aligned with your purpose, then you will know it is not worth your time.
But just because a woman isn't aligned with your purpose doesn't mean you should give up entirely on pursuing women, it just means that you get back to work and try again.
Go out into the world, fuck shit up, and make yourself useful because only then will the woman worth your time and attention present herself.