I know the title of today's post may sound harsh at a first glance, but I promise if you make it to the end, it will all make sense.
One thing that is inherently true about women is that all women lie...
However, while women may lie with their words, they never lie with their actions, and this is why when a man chooses to date or enter into a new relationship with a woman, there is a series of steps in which he must take to vet the woman out in the courting phase.
Before we go any further, let me first explain what I mean when I say that all women lie.
One thing that you will learn as a man is that the more experience you have with women, the more you will realize that women all have the same natural tendencies.
If you have read any of our previous posts, you would know that we have discussed in-depth as to the reality in which women see the world.
It is to no surprise at this point that women live in a feelings-based reality.
In other words, women see the world from a reactive perspective, meaning that most of their decisions are made based off of what they are feeling in the moment.
Any man that has had enough experience with women knows that a woman can go from being infatuated by you one day and repulsed by you the next day.
Maybe you pissed her off or did something that gave her the "ick" and now she doesn't even want to look at you.
That is the reality when it comes to dating women as a man - you have to accept the fact that she can go from loving you one moment to hating you the next.
Because women live in a feelings-based reality, they are also subject to verbally lying as a result.
Many times women will lie unconsciously because how they feel about something today may not be how they feel about it tomorrow.
Something may not be a problem today, then a week goes by and then all the sudden the thing that wasn't a problem a week prior is now a problem.
Or in other cases, women will lie just for the sheer fact that they are either trying to preserve your feelings or preserve their own.
This is why one question you never ask a woman is what her body count is because this is something 9.9 times out of 10 that women are going to lie about whether they are trying to preserve your feelings or save themselves from the embarrassment.
While it is very natural for women to lie verbally, they never lie with their actions and this is why as a man, the most important thing you can do when dating is to always be aware of the things your woman is doing, not the things that she says.
It is important for a man to make mental notes of the things a woman tells you because many times she will reveal lies or half-truths in things she says.
For example, if a woman tells you a story about her past and then later on brings up the same story with left-out details from the first time she told you this story, this is something that you should be taking mental notes of because taking mental notes paint a better picture for you as to her capacity for lying.
With that being said, this is also why it is important for men to ask certain questions and allow the woman to reveal her own truth over time, instead of coming right out and asking a woman upfront what something like her body count is.
Now, before it sounds too much like I am shitting on women, let's talk about why it is important for men to understand why it is that women lie.
As a man, you have to accept the fact that all women lie because it is part of the feminine nature.
As expressed earlier on in this post, because women live in a feelings-based reality, you have to accept the fact that how she feels about something today is not how she is going to feel about it tomorrow.
You have to accept that she is going to have days where she feels great and have days where she feels not-so-great.
You have to accept the fact that she sees the world differently than you and that is what makes women such a powerful force in your life.
There is a difference between telling a little white lie versus making a conscious effort to lie and the difference is the conscious effort.
As discussed previously, many times women will lie unconsciously because they simply haven't processed the situation or the information fully in that moment.
Little white lies are not a problem and something that you must accept as a man when it comes to having a woman in your life.
However, conscious lies are much more of an issue.
If a woman makes a conscious effort to lie to you because she is purposely hiding something from you, then you need to take a strong mental note of it.
This is also why it is important for men to have boundaries and lay these boundaries out in the beginning before too much time becomes invested.
Make it known that you will not tolerate lying and you will not tolerate the disrespect.
With all of that being said, let's discuss why it is important for men to understand this about women.
Because women do not process information or make decisions the same way we do is exactly what makes them perfect counterparts for the masculine man.
The fact that women live in a feelings-based reality gives them a superpower that compliments men in every way, and that superpower is intuition.
A woman's intuitive senses make the perfect compliment to a man's logical brain.
A woman is going to see things that you do not see and when harnessed properly, making the perfect yin to your yang.
This is truly why women were created for men.
Because we see the world so differently and because the way we process information is biologically different, it is safe to say that a woman in her true feminine is the perfect counterpart to a man in his true masculine.
As a man you have to accept the fact that all women lie because it is just a part of the feminine nature, however, you cannot simply use this logic as a means of giving up pursuing women entirely.
While it is true that many women today, at least in the West, are influenced by degenerate culture, it does not mean that you write women off entirely.
Women today are being indoctrinated into a system that tells them not to rely on men, prioritize nonsense like looks and money over family and good morals/values, and be equal to men in every way.
These are things you do not have to accept because no man has to tolerate bad behavior.
However, if a woman proves that she is capable of bringing you peace, wants to support you in your endeavors, show you true loyalty and respect, and compliment your system of thinking, then it is your job and your duty to make it worth her while.